“Hey Neighbor”

When you think of neighbor, your first thought is probably Betty from across the street, or Dan in apartment 15, and though that is true, we believe our neighbors are also outside of our neighborhood.

You can find them across the street or with you in the grocery aisle, perhaps they’re your classmate in ENG 112 or your office coworkers. Maybe they’re your fellow church goers, or the people you bump into downtown…

Wherever you are, whatever the circumstance, you have a neighbor. Our goal is help you rekindle or even begin new and healthy relationships with your neighbors. Together, by applying intentionality to our general engagements with people, we can start to grow a more meaningful community.

Intentionality that stands out

  • Get your neighbor a coffee

    Coffee is more than just a drink, it is an invitation for a conversation. What better way to know your neighbor better then to offer a free coffee and a listening ear? By providing focused time with your neighbor, you will raise self-esteem and boost self-confidence.

    Looking for local coffee shops? Check out these locations near by:

    Rogers Bakery | Livit Coffee | Coffee Perk | Starbucks | Colville Patesserie

  • Wash your neighbor's car

    With a little soap, some water, and 20 minutes, you can make a lasting friendship that will champion through the years. By washing your neighbors car you are indirectly telling your neighbor that they are important and that they are valued. In return, they then have a sense of belonging which is a priceless treasure.

    Need some soap, sponges, or other supplpies? No problem, call the Center for Humanitarian Engagement for a free tool check out. Call (509) 527-2100

  • Affirm and encourage your neighbor

    All it takes is one word for someone’s day to be changed. You could be that very pivot that your neighbors needs today.

    Recall something you’ve noticed about them that you appreciate and turn it into a word of both affirmation and encouragement.

    It may sound something like “Hey Drake, I want to affirm your leadership skills at work, keep up the good work. You’re doing great”

  • Ask your neighbor how their day is

    Asking your neighbor how their day is can make all the difference. Start with a simple question. Is today a good day or a bad day? From there ask why and perhaps how you might help, if it is a bad day. Or maybe ask how you can help celebrate, if it is a good day!

  • Invite your neighbor to an outdoor activity

    When you mix physical exercise and social connectedness you begin to create a friendship that will last for years.

    Perhaps you know a neighbor who is into tennis, basketball, maybe soccer, or even jogging. Next time you see them, invite them to join you for a round of tennis or a few laps around the track.